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What’s a Death Shepherd? Moving away from the more traditionally known work of death doulas connecting with those at the end of their lives, the Death Shepherd takes a pre-need approach: the optimal time to decide and make known the things that are important to you about dying is while you are actively living. Think of it like death coaching; inevitably, we all will someday die. For many, having done some thinking, planning, and preparing lessens the anxiety. This can be especially important if you are someone who does not have a traditionally recognized family structure, are not close with your family of origin, or have concerns about your wishes being respected after death. A shepherd guides rather than leads — my goal is to support as you explore what is important to you about your own dying (and living) process — and works in concert with other elements, such as lawyers, designated next-of-kin, and so forth.The difference is in the timing; starting now gives you an opportunity to consider and contemplate, to dive into what makes you uncomfortable or gives you concern, and to make plans that represent who you are and what is important to you.